Reading List

Books that have stayed with me — not as reviews, but as companions that changed how I notice an ordinary hour.

A cosy reading corner with stacked books, a cup of tea, and soft afternoon light

I read slowly and return to favourites often. The books below are ones I recommend to friends who ask what to read when they want something thoughtful without being heavy. Each title connects, in some way, to the themes of this blog: attention, place, rhythm, and the dignity of small things.

  1. The Art of Stillness

    by Pico Iyer

    A slim book about the courage of staying put. Iyer writes about retreat not as escape but as a way to see more clearly. I return to it whenever I feel pulled in too many directions.

  2. How to Do Nothing

    by Jenny Odell

    Odell makes a case for resisting the attention economy by re-rooting yourself in place and community. Her chapter on birdwatching changed how I walk through my neighbourhood.

  3. The Year of Magical Thinking

    by Joan Didion

    Didion's precision with grief taught me that clarity and emotion are not opposites. I read this when I need to remember what honest prose sounds like.

  4. Notes from a Small Island

    by Bill Bryson

    Bryson observes ordinary places with humour and affection. He reminds me that curiosity does not require exotic settings — sometimes the best material is right outside your door.

  5. The Sound of a Wild Snail Eating

    by Elisabeth Tova Bailey

    Written during a period of illness, this memoir finds an entire world in a snail on a bedside table. It is a masterclass in paying attention when your body asks you to slow down.

  6. Upstream

    by Mary Oliver

    Oliver's essays on the creative life and the natural world are gentle without being soft. I keep this by my desk and open it at random when I need a sentence to anchor the day.

  7. In Praise of Shadows

    by Jun'ichirō Tanizaki

    Tanizaki writes about light, darkness, and the aesthetics of everyday objects in Japanese life. Reading it in humid Singapore made me notice shadow and texture differently.

  8. The Empathy Exams

    by Leslie Jamison

    Jamison's essays on pain, compassion, and what it means to witness another person's experience. She writes with rigour and warmth — a combination I aspire to.